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LADIE'S GUIDE

Before you can convince people you’re attractive, you have to believe it yourself.
A lady never kisses and tells.
Always say “please” and “thank you“. Civility never goes out of style.
Only wear heels if you know how to walk in them.
Be yourself.
Enjoy the fact that you are a woman and men will enjoy it, too.
Never show too much leg or too much cleavage at the same time.
Don’t act stupid when you’re not.
Never, ever make a sex tape.
Let people know that you think they’re wonderful.
Avoid false compliments.
Remember birthdays and send thank you notes.
Underwear is not a misnomer. Exposed thongs are not glamorous.
Be nice to your server; not because it’s nice, but because we’re human beings.
When in doubt, dress up.
Carry yourself with confidence. It’s sexier than any low-cut dress.
If you make a mistake, acknowledge it and apologise.
Drink responsibly. There’s nothing adorable in being sick or comatose.
Be on time. Nobody likes waiting or being interrupted.
Tuck in your chair when you get up to leave.
It’s not always what you say. It’s also how you say it.
Beauty is not just visual; it employs all of the senses.
Don’t laugh at another’s mistake. A lady knows no one is perfect.
Your make up does not have to look natural, but make sure it looks clean.
Don’t chase perfection. Embrace your vices – they humanise you.
Only share negative opinions if you are asked for them first.
A lady is always well read and well informed. Knowledge is power.
No open-mouthed kissing in public. No one wants to see that.
Wear perfume. (But not too much as to stink up the room you are in.)
A lady never takes pleasure in the misfortunes of others.
Be sincere.
Don’t take out your bad mood on others. No one should be punished for being your in company.
You can toy with a man, but never with his emotions. Hearts are fragile things.
A lady know the power of the Little Black Dress.
A lady of class is rich; not in wealth but in culture.
Realise that happiness is a choice; it’s your life and it’s up to you if it’s a happy one.
Tracksuits and sneakers belong at the gym.
Dress the part: You don’t have to wear a suit or dress but a lady always wears clean, coordinated clothing.
Being a lady is about being kind. It is true elegance.
Practice martyr-free modesty: In everything she does, a lady will acknowledge those who helped her before she takes any credit for herself.
A lady will not flaunt herself, her valuables, or her accomplishments
A lady is not self-absorbed.
Never lose your cool: Don’t let people get under your skin, no matter how much they try.
If you have nothing good to say then don’t say anything at all – take that to heart!
Be well mannered.
You will and should be judged by your friends, choose them wisely.
Walk graciously.
Actions speak louder than words.
Never say that you’re leaving for the bathroom. Simply excuse yourself.
Don’t complain about things you can’t change – like waiting in line or the weather.
Don’t engage in prolonged public displays of affection.
Never talk on your phone when in a restaurant or at the movies.
Don’t gossip.
Don’t tell sexist or racist jokes.
Do not interrupt people speaking to you.
Never ask if you look fat.
It is imperative that you develop good posture, which isn’t too hard to achieve.
Listen more than you speak.
Hear others out before assuming your way of doing things is the superior way
Don’t burp or fart out loud, in front of people.
If you say you will do something, follow up on it.
Don’t be a drama queen. It’s unpleasant for those around you.
Don’t use fake tears to win something.
Don’t talk with your mouth full.
Don’t eat with your hands.
Be a tidy person, organized and systematic.
Don’t leave mess where you go.
Don’t bite your nails.
Don’t talk too loud.
Don’t mix and match patterns from head to toe. (no more than 2)
Know what type of clothes flatter you and wear them. Don’t wear something just because you like it, even if it makes you look fat or disproportioned.
Look people in the eyes.
Don’t eat your roll like an apple. The courteous way to dine on bread is to tear off a bite-size piece and pop it in your mouth.
Too much silver or golden fabric, glitter or all these combined is something that should really disappear. On some occasions they can definitely be taken into consideration, but not when going to do the groceries.
Don’t buy smaller clothes hoping that in time they will be just right. Choose what fits you!
Don’t make a tragedy out of everything.
Don’t shout on the street, laugh noisily and when you have to talk on the phone leave the group for a few moments.
In order to create a good image of yourself, try not to show all your feelings. When succeeding, show a moderate joy even if it’s the greatest thing ever.
When you feel envious (it happens) try not to show it.
Don’t give satisfaction to others and don’t be rude.
Don’t promote yourself aggressively, by handling the things the right way you will definitely attract the attention you deserve!
Keep your legs together when you get into or out of a car.
Don’t groom in public, in the car or at the table in a restaurant.
If you’ve chosen to dye your hair, don’t let it get to the stage where we see more of your roots than the actual hair colour.
Don’t sit with your legs wide apart in a skirt – it looks kinda slobby and not so ladylike.
Don’t swear.
Don’t spit.
A lady is always modern, timeless and positive.
A lady knows her company will be desired because of her good sense of humor.
Exercise and stay fit ! A lady isn’t overweighted.
A lady knows that her smile is her best accessory.
Always classy, never trashy.
A true lady doesn’t start fights.
Be refined, polite and well-spoken.
Don’t ever forget your value, don’t underestimate yourself.
Never let a man define you. Be amazing on your own!
True beauty comes from within.
A lady knows her limits no matter what.
A lady holds her head high, but never her nose.
Be the woman a man needs, not the woman that needs a man.

Gentlemen's Guide

Be a good listener.
Be a loyal friend. Keep your word.
Be reliable and on time. Be punctual.
Be trustworthy.
Never pull your phone during a conversation or at dinner (even if it’s to show someone a photo).
Take pride in your appearance. Look sharp fell
Call or message to check your friend got home safely.
Make time for what’s important to you.
Don’t blame others for your failures but don’t be too hard on yourself.
“Courtesy is as much of a Mark of a gentleman as Courage” – Theodore Roosevelt
Fold your washing. No one likes a messy room.
Give more than you receive in the bedroom. It’s better if you’re both having fun.
Stand when she approaches or leaves the table.
Walk on the street side of the curb.
Be nice to yourself — stumbles and failures are going to happen. No one’s perfect.
Compliment her on more than just her physical appearance.
Pull out her chair.
Offer your coat when it’s cold.
Allow her to order first, but if she isn’t ready, don’t insist.
“I am a great believer in luck. The harder I work, the luckier I get"
Send her flowers for no reason.
Walk her to her car/taxi/door. Regardless of your motive.
Hold the umbrella over her.
Treat her to dinner out every so often.
Put thought into your dates.
Be genuinely intrigued with what she has to say.
Pay attention whilst in conversation.
Encourage her to pursue her goals
Carry her heavy bags.
3Give a massage to your significant other. You know how good it feels when it’s done to you so return the favour.
“A gentleman is one who never hurts anyone’s feelings unintentionally.” – Oscar Wilde
Have eyes for her and her alone.
Respect her space.
Always hold the door open the door for someone.
Never stop learning. Don’t be a know-it-all.
Set your standards and values high.
Maintain a Sense of Humor.

Don’t sweat the small stuff. Keep your cool.
Be willing to share some secrets.
Don’t swear. Watch your language.
Be genuine.
“You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.” – David Foster Wallace Lead by example… in all aspects of life.
Stand up for ladies or those less fortunate on the bus.
. Stay humble and be gracious.
Clean your shoes. A man’s shoes says a lot about his personality.
Send a hand written thank you note after attending an event.
If you can’t make it, let people know. Don’t just not show up.
Don’t have an end goal in mind when going on a date.
Share your ideas with people.. Always extend a firm handshake.
“Stop comparing your behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel.” –
Make breakfast for her.
Forgive others. Don’t go holding grudges that’ll eat up inside you.
Find a good TV Show you both love.
Go for a walk together
Never send more than two texts in a row. Be careful with your words and don’t pester people (especially on Tinder)
Embrace change.
Don’t bitch about other people. If someone is worth respecting, they’re probably already thinking the same thing as you anyways.. Want others to succeed, not to fail.
Say “please” and “thank you” often.
Admit When you’re wrong.
“The most important investment you can make is in yourself.” – Warren Buffet
Don’t pick fights you don’t have to.
Be comfortable surrounding yourself with good company, or none.
Watch how much you drink.
Be willing to help others.
Maintain eye contact in conversation.
Move around confidently and with intention.
Respect your elders.
Before sending a text (particularly on dating apps), think, what would my mum think if she read this?
Guard your reputation with your life.
Be chivalrous, not patronizing.
“Education begins the gentleman, but reading, good company and reflection must finish him.”- John Locke
Learn, observe and study, but never worship.
Attitude is everything. Maintain a positive one.
Make reservations for the restaurant.
Help a lady with her coat but ask first, “May I?”
Mind your table manners.
This shouldn’t need to be even said but a gentleman never hits a woman. Ever.
Pay attention to the details.
Ask for her family’s blessing before proposing.
Tell her you care. Every. Single. Day.
Embrace your inner Fred Astaire. Have a dance and don’t stand idle.
“A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly.” – Robert A. Heinlein
Keep your hygiene in check.
Be a grown-up. Clean up any unsavoury social media profiles from yesteryears.
Find your purpose.
Be clear about what you want.
Don’t be greedy (go see The Big Short).
Know the difference between confidence and arrogance.
Stay open-minded but firm in your beliefs and morals.
Never lie to a woman unless it is to surprise her.
Mean what you say, and say what you mean.
Try not to judge. We all carry prejudices but make sure you’re aware of them.
“A gentleman is one who puts more into the world than he takes out.” – George Bernard Shaw
Know how to cook… at least one good meal.
Always offer to pay.
Know when not to say anything.
Always offer a drink to your guests and carry their luggage to their rooms.
Never kiss and tell.
Know when to clap.
Know how to tell a good story.
Know the exception to a rule.
Know how to give a good toast.
Be yourself.